Sex (in general) , do you think it is important or not? important to a relationship? important to a marriage? important to you?.....Is sex important, it also means is sex necessary and essential. It is wide, you can have your thoughts on every aspects.
So , why I'll have this topic on? First of all, I have to clarify something, which is this topic is not our class general paper's topic. Our teacher is cool, but not cool to have us discuss on homosexuals, g-spot, or sex openly in the class yet. During the Gp class, dav : "teacher, what is G spot? " T :" what? I can't hear" and then she called him WTF guy lol, she heard it, just didnt wana explain to him. But dav, why u wana ask this question lol, the sex pro was just sitting beside u ...
Alright, it was friday, as usual, fridays are always relaxing for us, we normally just chat through the whole day. When we started to have this topic? All began from the pure maths class. We weren't listening to the lecturer at all, not because of we do not respect her, it's simply because we know how to do the question, pure maths is not hard, similar to the additional maths actually. So back to the story, we played reversi and started chatting......our 1st topic was on gay issue, asking their acceptance of gay relationship and gay people , we discussed about homosexuals peacefully lol....and then, there's this part they strongly couldn't agree with, which is the homo's sex part. Then we had some kind arguments.some said, " i can accept it but not the sex part" another said" means you can't accept it completely, when there's a relationship, there's is love and there will be sex. " some said" No, you can have no sex" "what?! no sex after marriage? no sex throughout your whole life?".....ok ..then, we don't want it to be specifically just on homo sex, we bring it to the sex *in general.........is it important.........
then the pure maths class finished and i won the reversi game hahahah *winks wei ren
then we futher the discussion in the applied maths lesson, we were at the top row, talking abt sex quite loud, but whateva lol.....
We collected some ideas and it appears to be like the below
*(They.....I meant the guys that i was having this duscussion with . like 5 to 6 of us, not my whole class ...)
Is Sex Important?
Agree1) The best indoor sport
2) It forms a healthy lifestyle, it reduces stress, it improves blood circulation
3) Improves happiness. It satisfies one's need and desire, in actual, it satisfies each other.
4) one of the ways to show your love and passion and express your inner feeling to your partner 5) Self-exploration * can enhance your skill lol
6)Make love, no war
Against1) Relationships are based on feelings,not on lust. A lustful relationship is meaningless.
2) Too much of sex can cause addiction, thus driving one to become a wild bease just to feed his 'hunger"
3)Just as a tool to get a child, if it is important, why there are still many monks out there?
4) Sex is not everything, the most important aspect in a relationship is communication
The above ideas are from my mates, any other opinions are welcomed with open arms.
Personally, I do think sex is important. 1st come into my mind, if our parents did not have sex , where are we right now? can we still experience the human life?
Jonan said :" Like everything else, sex should be done in moderation. Did you know that if you drink too much water, you can die? Should you not eat?" I totally agree with it. So, too much sex means you've got addicted to it, obsessed with it ,it may even reach the level where you can't even control your own desire ,thus changing your personal behaviour, transforming into a wild beast and then increasing the criminal cases?? What drives someone to become a wild sex is not about having sex, it is you, yourself. You make the right choice for yourself, you determine it and be ready to accept the consequences.
Drugs do not approach you, its you, who go to the drugs.Actually if one has no sex for even once in their lifetime, you should be scared, who knows he may rape you at the next second lol
Sex is not everything, which is correct. But is it important? you still havent answered the question Dav. L ;) once you told me, when you have sex after marriage , it means both of you are mentally bond together,made for each other....dont you think , you mean sex can tighten the bond? isnt that important to you? Although yeah, this cannot be applied into one night stand cases. Monk. Yups, there are quite a number around the world, but do you think the number of monks are more than the number of people who have sex? if the numbers of ppl of having sex is more than the monks, then your point of sex is just a tool to get a child will no longer valid. It means sex is important and it's not just a tool. Besides, it's not the only way for poeple to think sex is unimportant to become a monk. There are monks out there who search for tranquility, out of the polluted and aggresive society, who wana reflect of what they did, etc. Jonan said :" Everyone has a certain "calling" in life. Some people are called to celibate. Different people do different things for different reasons."
"Love is not a mere feeling... relationships are not based on feelings alone....sex is not necessarily based on lust....."Jonan said. This explains a lot...Im quite lazy to elaborate this =p
For me, feelings are the thing you got attracted to someone at the very 1st sight or 1st time. The feelings may grow stronger or weaker as time goes by. That's why we need to always know how to keep this feelings throughout the whole life. what are the ways to keep it? be a joker? be romantic? etc ......anyway,
Sex is not everything, but it is something that cant be missed out in our life. It's somehow important. If sex is not important, can you not have sex even after youre married? can you not have sex throughout your whole life?wouldnt it be dull ? lol <
It's an open discussion,anyone can drop off their view here =)
up *left : David L, Baoly,me, Simyee, Ivan
